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REVEREND LAKI KAAHUMANU (Groom) and (Bride), we are here to celebrate your marriage. This day you have chosen to affirm your love for each other with spoken words, with prayer, and with the sharing of symbols. VERSE BY THE SEA Marriage is a commitment to life
to the best that two
people can find and bring out of each other. It offers opportunities
for sharing and growth no other human relationship can equal,
a physical and emotional joining that is promised for a lifetime.
Marriage understands and forgives the mistakes life is unable to avoid. It encourages and nurtures new life, new experiences, and new ways of expressing love through the seasons of life. When two people pledge to love and care for each other in marriage, they create a spirit unique to themselves, which binds them closer than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, made in the hearts of two people who love each other, and this will take a lifetime to fulfill. Aloha to you both! Welcome to our island! SHARING OF LEIS The Hawaiians have a traditional saying, "Honi ka waa" (kiss her/him on the mouth). DECLARATION OF INTENTION (Groom), do you wish for (Bride) to be known as your wife? If so, please say, "I do." (Bride), do you wish for (Groom) to be known as your husband? If so, please say, "I do." (Groom) and (Bride) do you promise to let you love for each other grow, as it will, as it must, so that in the years to come, you will renew your acceptance, your understanding and your trust of one another? If so, please say, "We promise." MARRIAGE VOWS (Repeat after the minister) I, (Groom) take you (Bride) to be my wife. I promise to love you, honor your, and cherish you. I will be a companion to you. I will share my strengths and my achievements. I promise to respect you and be a friend to you for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health as long as we both shall live. (Repeat after the minister) I, (Bride) take you (Groom) to be my husband. I promise to love you, honor your, and cherish you. I will be a companion to you. I will share my strengths and my achievements. I promise to respect you and be a friend to you for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health as long as we both shall live. RING CEREMONY The wedding rings are a symbol of longevity in the marriage covenant. The circle of the ring symbolizes a never ending circle of love and commitment that you are making. Always see the best in each other and each day that you are together. Let it be full of the beauty of the never ending love you have for each other through the symbols of these rings. (Repeat after the minister) (Groom), I give this ring to you as a sign of my love. I give myself to you to be your husband so that from this day forward you shall not walk alone. I feel so honored to have you as my wife. I vow to love and sustain you in the covenant of our marriage from this day forward, in sickness and in health, in plenty and in want, in joy and in sorrow, as long as we both shall live. (Repeat after the minister) (Bride), I give this ring to you as a sign of my love. I give myself to you to be your wife so that from this day forward you shall not walk alone. I feel so honored to have you as my husband. I vow to love and sustain you in the covenant of our marriage from this day forward, in sickness and in health, in plenty and in want, in joy and in sorrow, as long as we both shall live. PRONOUNCEMENT We have witnesses to this special day. Therefore, I, and those of us here with you, recognize that you have become husband and wife and we and all of your family and friends shall honor you as the same from this day forward. A. IMAU AKU KALOKO MAI KA'I O KA HAKU O IESU CRISTO ME KEALOHA O KEAKUA A MEKALAUNA PUANA O KA'UHANE HEMOLELE ME KA KO APA'U. MAY THE GRACE OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST AND THE LOVE OF GOD AND THE COMMUNION OF HIS SPIRIT BE WITHN YOU ALWAYS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU, MAY GOD'S FACE SHINE UPON YOU AND BE GRACIOUS UNTO YOU; MAY GOD LIFT UP HIS COUTENANCE UPON YOU AND GIVE YOU PEACE. AMEN BENEDICTION I present to you Mr. And Mrs. (Groom) and (Bride) (Last Name)! |
